Lately, a popular topic when talking with my nephews is opportunities and what to do with them. Seizing and not missing opportunities has always been important to me and has made a difference in my roping. My nephews have learned to take advantage of opportunities presented to them and have had the opportunity to learn how to win and to practice how to win. It’s a common attitude our family shares.
Not missing an opportunity isn’t always easy. My boys have recently shown an interest in roping the Smarty mechanical dummy. I’m pretty tickled about this and want to make it as fun for them as I can.
The other day I had told the boys we would rope the Smarty that evening. Early in the day I discovered a place where my bull and the neighbor’s bull fought and tore the fence down. Ordinarily it’s not the end of the world, but this wasn’t just any old pasture. This was the one, out of six or seven, where our registered cows and bull are. This bull was very expensive because even though these cows are artificially inseminated, they don’t all take and he ensures we will have top quality calves. I couldn’t chance having my neighbor’s bull on these registered cows.
It would have been easy to tell my boys that we just couldn’t rope that night because I had to fix fence. It’s not life or death for them and they would have been fine with it. But, I would have missed the opportunity, as their dad, of having fun roping with them. I think it’s my job as their dad to make things enjoyable.
So, when I found the fence down, I thought, “No, not today. I’m not missing out on tonight with my kids.” So I hustled, got the fence fixed and we still got to rope and have a good time.
One of the things I’ve been talking about with my nephews is getting the most out of every opportunity. That has always been one of my strengths. When things don’t go your way, there’s an opportunity to learn, change or grow. The hard part is seeing those circumstances as the opportunity it is.
Until next time, God Bless, and I’ll see you down the line.